Setting thresholds for yourself is equivalent to elevating the other party. This phenomenon is essentially an invisible collusion of "self-deprecation" and "power delegation." The "social comparison bias" in psychology indicates that when individuals preset "I don't deserve it" and elevate others, such as "they are better/worthier than me" (, it actually activates the brain's "low power sensitivity neural circuit": by belittling self-worth, rationalizing the other party's advantageous position, thereby escaping competition anxiety or failure risk. This pattern reinforces "cognitive dissonance," where one desires recognition while actively compressing their own space, ultimately distorting the relationship into an imbalanced script of "worshiper-idol." Deeper motivations may stem from "reverse narcissism": by deifying others, indirectly fulfilling the illusion of superiority derived from "connecting with the strong." However, psychoanalysis points out that this "elevation" is essentially "projective identification," projecting one's unrealized potential onto others, which exacerbates self-alienation. ) #余币宝年化收益破24%# #Gate Launchpad IKA上线#